Anxiety is one of the most distressing emotions that people feel. It describes a number of problems, including phobias, panic attacks, post-traumatic stress disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. It is also a word used to describe brief periods of nervousness or fear, normal feelings that everyone has when faced with difficult experiences.
Most people who are anxious are aware of the physical symptoms - sweaty palms, light-headedness, difficulty breathing, increased heart rate, flushed cheeks and feeling jittery, to name a few. Many of these are the same as those experienced with depression, which is often linked to anxiety disorders.
A variety of events can contribute to anxiety. These can range from acute trauma, such as being in an automobile accident, physical or sexual abuse, to things that just seem to overwhelm us for no apparent reason, such as a job promotion or giving a presentation. All the physical, behavioral and thinking changes a person experiences when they are anxious are part of the "fight, fight or freeze" response in humans. These are a natural reaction to danger and the brain will naturally prepare the body for one of these responses by increasing the heart rate, speeding up breathing and increasing the flow of blood to muscles that are tensing up in preparation for a reaction. To fight or run fast, the body has to be prepared with an accelerated heart rate, plenty of oxygen and muscle tension. In order to freeze, the muscles need to be tense and rigid. All these physical responses are natural reactions to a threat.
Unfortunately, some people don't need life-threatening situations to experience these reactions; they experience them in everyday situations that others who don't suffer from anxiety disorder seem to breeze through without a second thought. Their anxiety response to being asked to give a presentation or travel to a meeting may be as great as if they were tottering on the edge of a cliff, about to go over.
The perception of threat varies from person to person. Because of their life experiences, some people may feel threatened very easily, and will often feel anxious. Other people may feel a greater sense of safety and security. Growing up in chaotic and volatile surroundings may lead a person to the conclusion that the world around them presents constant threats. In others, who have no apparent background in trauma, it's more difficult to understand why they experience anxiety about events that others find trivial. In any case, it is important to evaluate whether or not you are over-responding to danger and threat. Your cognition, or thoughts, may be the root of your anxiety; and in order to reduce anxiety, it is necessary to use your thoughts to open new and creative ways of responding to threats that cause anxiety.
Anxious thoughts are future oriented, usually with a prediction of catastrophe. Anxious thoughts usually begin with "What if..." and end with a disastrous outcome. "What if... I forget my notes?" "What if... the airplane crashes? "What if... my boss thinks I'm a fool every time I open my mouth?" These thoughts feed on themselves, spinning into endless catastrophic "what if" scenarios.
Most people are able to stop their panic attacks by identifying and altering the thoughts that accompany panic. In addition to intervention of these thought processes, many people find relaxation therapy for anxiety to be very helpful.














